Paula Rudikoff

Paula Rudikoff (Lerner)

October 15, 1947 - February 14, 2021
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    Friday, February 19th, 2021 | 2:30pm
    Friday, February 19th, 2021 2:30pm
    Virtual Funeral
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    Virtual funeral will be held on Friday February 19th at 2:30pm.

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Donations are being accepted for:
Jewish Community Services

5750 Park Heights Avenue, Baltimore, MD 21215


Paula Rudikoff (nee Lerner), of Sunnyvale, California, passed away on Sunday, February 14th, 2021 at the age of 73. She is survived by her daughters Bari Rudikoff (Gordon Manning) and Robin Rudikoff (Ronnen Miller), her brother Jay (Carla) Lerner, her grandchildren Alex Manning, Hayley Manning, Jamie Manning, Jonah Miller, and Simon Miller, and by her long time partner Erwin Everett. She was predeceased by her parents Shirley and Alvin Lerner.

Services are private. Please omit flowers. Contributions in her memory may be sent to Jewish Community Services, 5750 Park Heights Ave., Baltimore, MD 21208.
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Linda Metro

Posted at 05:18pm
Dear Family,
I am truly sorry to hear the news about your mom. I met her when I took a job at the University of Maryland in Baltimore back in 1986. She, Marsha and Terri Winter were also leaving the organization at that time as well. God Bless her and you all.

Joan and Marty Shifrin

Posted at 07:48pm
Carla and Jay,
We extend our condolences on the loss of Paula. May she rest in peace.

Ellene & Raymond

Posted at 01:19pm
Bari, Ray & I send our heartfelt on the loss of your mom. May she rest in peace.

Ilene Kahn

Posted at 12:46pm
Dear Bari, Robin, Jay and family,
So very sorry to hear about your loss. Although we hadn't been in touch for many years, we
remember lots of fun times we shared with Paula, playing mahjong and trips to Florida and Canada. Our thoughts are with you,
Ilene and Jeff

Sareva & Sandy Racher

Posted at 09:17pm
Sorry For Your Loss
Our Deepest Sympathy

Samantha Kieley

Posted at 06:47pm
Bari, Robin and Family -
Eric and I send you our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your lovely Mother/Grandmother. I smile thinking of the last time I saw her at one of Hayley's theater performances in Ellicott City. She beamed with pride the entire evening! Hugs, peace, and comfort to you all.

Barb & Ed Morris

Posted at 12:00pm
Dear Barri, Robin, Jay and family,
Barb and I have many fond memories with Paula both in Baltimore and in The Villages. We could always count on a great meal and Paula’s special crab dip appetizer. She will be missed by all and hope that her memories bring you happiness .

Sandy and Todd Jaffe

Posted at 11:59am
Jay, Bari and Robin,
We are so very sad for your loss and hope you will feel comfort with all of the special moments you shared with Paula. It is never easy to say goodbye, but focusing on the love and happy times helps with grief. Our thoughts are with you, and we send you love and strength.

Jill Hack and Ryan Hack

Posted at 08:57am
Bari, Alex, and family,
We were saddened to hear of your mother and grandmother passing. Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. Sending love.

Arlene Udoff Hidalgo

Posted at 07:47am
Bari Robin and family
So sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. She was truly a lovely person. Hope you can find comfort in your heart with wonderful memories of her.

Patti Jeffery Hobbs❤️

Posted at 11:19pm
I an very sorry for the loss of your mom. Sending love.

Marla Wolf Markoff

Posted at 07:05pm
Robin, Bari, and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Marla Markoff (Wolf)

Eileen Fried

Posted at 06:12pm
Dear Bari, Robin and Jay,
We just learned of your Mom's passing from Andrea, and were so saddened by this news. Though it had been some time since we had seen each other, the shared memories remain and are valued. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Monte and Eileen Fried


Linda and Berryl Speert

Posted at 05:30pm
Dear Bari and Robin,
Sara told us this morning of your Mom’s passing. Please know that we have happy memories from many years ago and share in your sadness now. May the memory of the delight she must have taken in your successes and your own families give you strength at this time of profound sadness. And may her memory always be a blessing for you.

Ilene and Chuck Weiner

Posted at 05:28pm
Dear Bari: we are sending virtual hugs to you and your family. We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. We wish you beautiful memories.

David and Debbie Roffman

Posted at 04:57pm
Dear Bari: Debbie and I are so very sorry to learn about the passing of your mom. May her memory be for a blessing.

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